Keeping peace during the holidays
“It is tenderness for the past, courage for the present, hope for the future. It is a fervent wish that every…
Not all schedules are worth keeping
“Being in a hurry does not slow down time.” ― Mokokoma Mokhonoana Hey sis! Officially, this is my first post since…
Relationships: who to keep and who to let go of
“Loving people does not mean you let them hurt you, loving yourself and others unconditionally is a balance between protecting yourself…
Permission to be a multi-passionate black creative
“The sooner you stop denying the fact that you’re multi-passionate, the happier and more successful you’ll be…” Stephenie Zamora Hey sis!…
How codependency has affected my life (2/3)
So last week I shared a little about how the environment I had grown up had contributed to my codependency. As…
Being African & Codependent (1/3)
The last video I posted on abantumay was on whether we as Africans are raised to be codependent by nature/tradition? I…